今天小編為大家準備了一些安慰人的英語(yǔ)口語(yǔ)練習，希望能夠幫到大家，接下來(lái)跟小編一起來(lái)看一下吧。
1. Not so good – “God will never give you more than you can handle.”
1. 不要說(shuō)：“上帝不會(huì )讓你承受更多苦難?！?#13;
Even if the person has a faith system that includes God, this phrase has the tacit implication that if you can’t handle things, you must not have enough faith, you’re a bad Christian, etc.
如果這個(gè)人對上帝有著(zhù)很堅定的，這句話(huà)就有了隱藏的含義：也就是說(shuō)如果你處理不好這件事，你肯定是沒(méi)有堅定的信仰，不是虔誠的徒等等。
Better – “This must be so hard for you.”
不如說(shuō)：“我知道你肯定非常難受?！?#13;
2. Not so good – “I’m sure it’s all for the best.”
2. 不要說(shuō)：“我想這一切可能是較好的結果?！?#13;
Ack! Try really hard not to say this! Right now, the grieving person doesn’t see that anything is for the best except to have her loved one back. 我的天，千萬(wàn)別說(shuō)這句話(huà)！這個(gè)沉浸在悲痛中的人并不覺(jué)得一切是好結果，除非她的至親能夠復活。
Better – “It’s hard to understand why these things happen.”
不如說(shuō)：“真不知道為會(huì )發(fā)生這樣的事情?！?#13;
3. Not so good – Saying nothing at all.
3. 不要：什么都不說(shuō)。
This is actually one of the worst things that can happen to a grieving person: having people ignore his pain. If you’re not sure what to say, or are uncertain that the person wants to talk about it, it’s okay to say just that.
周?chē)娜撕鲆曀膫?，這對傷痛的人來(lái)說(shuō)可能是壞的事情之一了。如果你不知道去說(shuō)些什么，或者不確定他是否愿意聊這件事，那就直接說(shuō)出來(lái)吧。
Better – “I’m not sure what to say but I want you to know I’m here for you.”
不如說(shuō)：“我不知道該說(shuō)些什么，你只要知道我一直都在你身邊?！?#13;
4. Not so good – “He’s in a better place” or “Just be happy he isn’t in pain anymore.”
4. 不要說(shuō)：“他去了更好的地方” 或 “開(kāi)心點(diǎn)，他不再痛苦了?！?#13;
These things are always so well-intentioned, but ouch! The place the griever wants him to be is with her, no matter how much pain he was in or how difficult the caregiving was.
這些話(huà)的初衷的確是好的，但是悲痛者還是希望至親就在自己身邊，無(wú)論至親有著(zhù)什么樣的痛苦或者無(wú)論照顧起來(lái)是多么的麻煩。
Better – “You must miss him terribly.” 不如說(shuō)：“你肯定十分想念他?！?#13;
5. Not so good – “I know exactly how you feel.”
5. 不要說(shuō)：“我完全知道你的感受?！?p class='img'>
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